This hinders your happiness

This one was a big problem for me in the past โ€ฆ

How much does your annual salary need to be for you to feel happy?

That tiny graph shows that no matter where our current salary is ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜† ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐˜†/๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฑ.

We donโ€™t realize that happiness has nothing to do with how much we earn (unless you are one of those geniuses who knows how to use money to buy happiness).

This is also THE reason why our economies keep on chugging along & growing over the long term.

Everybody wants more!


But you donโ€™t NEED everything you WANT.

Our expectations around money are all out of whack.

Part of the issue is that we seem to have blurred the distinction between a want & a need.

Do you know the difference?

And act accordingly?

Daily?

๐˜ผ๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™–๐™—๐™ก๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ฅ ๐™ค๐™›๐™› ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™๐™š๐™™๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™˜ ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™™๐™ข๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก?

If yes, congrats on getting off the Hedonic Treadmill.

With Hedonic Treadmill I mean the one that some people are constantly running on because their neighbour – or the people on television & social media – APPEAR to be richer than them. 

Keeping up with the Joneses (I don’t even know who they are) – who incidentally might be heavily indebted & unhappy behind the faรงade that they present to us – appears to be the main objective that people (= the others) work in a stressful job, so as to make enough money to have a stress-free life.

Does anyone else see any irony in this?

“If you already live a comfortable life, then choosing to make more money but live a worse daily life is a bad trade.
And yet, we talk ourselves into it all the time. We take promotions that pay more, but swallow our free time. We already have a successful business, but we break ourselves trying to make it even more successful.
Too much focus on wealth, not enough focus on lifestyle.โ€œ โ€“ James Clear

โ€œTodayโ€™s economy is good at generating three things: wealth, the ability to show off wealth, and great envy for other peopleโ€™s wealth.โ€โ€“ Morgan Housel, Same as Ever

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