Mere-exposure effect

The time has come again. It’s that time of the year when families gather for reunion dinners, when extended families from far-flung corners of Singapore meet in one central place for the annual “oh-how-have-you-been – when-are-you-getting-married – have-you-gained-some-weight – conversations”.…

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Luckily I am so lucky

Chatting with one of you the other day over a kopi C (that’s coffee with evaporated milk for my dear non-Singaporean readers) made me realize that you might have gained the wrong perception of me. You might believe that due…

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Fading Affect Bias

Fading Affect Bias

Among the many quirks our brains have is something called the “fading affect bias.”  Basically, we aren’t very good at remembering negative emotions.  Our brains shrink the memories of bad times, painful experiences and anything generally unpleasant. That is generally…

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